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    closing circle by ruth

    Post by vijaybali on Thu Oct 01, 2009 12:47 am

    hai friends,

    i find some very useful article and i like to share to you because it is key for spiritual path. this one of great article i see may by you enjoyed.

    Closing Cycles

    One always has to know when a stage comes to an end.

    If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through.

    Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters - whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have finished.

    Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come to an end?

    Did you leave your parents' house? Gone to live abroad?

    Has a long-lasting friendship ended all of a sudden? You can spend a long time wondering why this has happened.

    You can tell yourself you won't take another step until you find out why certain things that were so important and so solid in your life have turned into dust, just like that.

    But such an attitude will be awfully stressing for everyone involved: your parents, your husband or wife, your friends, your children, your sister, everyone will be finishing chapters, turning over new leaves, getting on with life, and they will all feel bad seeing you at a standstill.

    None of us can be in the present and the past at the same time, not even when we try to understand the things that happen to us.

    What has passed will not return: we cannot for ever be children, late adolescents, sons that feel guilt or rancor towards our parents, lovers who day and night relive an affair with someone who has gone away and has not the least intention of coming back. Things pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go away.

    That is why it is so important (however painful it may be) to destroy souvenirs, move, give lots of things away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have at home. Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.

    Let things go.

    Release them.

    Detach yourself from them.

    Nobody plays this life with marked cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose.

    Do not expect anything in return, do not expect your efforts to be appreciated, your genius to be discovered, your love to be understood.

    Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much you suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.

    Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love relationships that are broken off, work that is promised but there is no starting date, decisions that are always put off waiting for the "ideal moment."

    Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back.

    Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person - nothing is irreplaceable, a habit is not a need. This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.

    Closing cycles.

    Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because that no longer fits your life. Shut the door, change the record, clean the house, shake off the dust.


    Stop being who you WERE, and change into who you ARE
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    Re: closing circle by ruth

    Post by chi_solas on Thu Oct 01, 2009 1:30 am

    Letting go, shutting doors all sound good
    What are the tools to help people do this?

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    Re: closing circle by ruth

    Post by vijaybali on Thu Oct 01, 2009 6:52 pm

    hai chi_solas
    Letting go, shutting doors all sound good
    What are the tools to help people do this?[/quote]


    great question but anwser is very simple what will happend when door is closed.

    Means when door is closed you can see owmself or you understand what is god or you can understand Whom i am.... ( their no difference between you and god all become same when this door closed.)

    Tool for this is practise to control the mind.

    I feel if we saw all own activate as a watcher than we can control it means not envolve it just work as professional not involve sentimental. it will come with practise and controling the mind same as we do all our bahaviour which we change from childhood to now.

    i think it will help ...

    Thanks and regards
    vj

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