by dharmabytes Tue Sep 06, 2011 3:55 am
Thank you, Chi Solas. My dad and cousin are really still quite active for their ages. They just need help with housework, driving and the tasks that are becoming a little too overwhelming for them right now. I have worried about them for years now living alone 2 states away. The other closest relative lives several hundred miles from them. Now that I'm officially retired and the opportunity has presented itself, I jumped at the opportunity to move there. I don't like the climate and freezing winters where I live now and will love being back on the West Coast.
I definitely do NOT want either of them going to a rest home and, frankly, I will enjoy their company as well. I've lived by myself for many years and, except for seeing my daughter and grandkids, have been pretty solitary. So it will be a welcome change and I can be there when they do become finally become incapacitated. Caregiving is not unfamiliar to me. I took care of my husband for several years before he passed away and know pretty much what to expect, the stages of decline, etc. I just hope my Reiki skills bring them comfort and that they are open to it. I know that people, when they are ill or dying, love to be touched. So many times, people back away from ill or dying patients or are afraid to touch them. I think that's a human characteristic, that we think we're going to somehow "catch" it or it somehow grosses us out. But dying is inevitable and something that we're all going to do sooner or later.
I think the West has a much more unhealthy attitude toward dying than many indigenous people in other parts of the world (and cultures in the East). Anyway, I'm getting off topic. I do think it's interesting that medical and scientific studies are finally catching up to what Reiki practitioners, herbal healers and shamans have know for thousands of years - everything has a "charge."