If a sociopath/psychopath doesn't have a conscious and cannot empathize with other sentient beings, be they plant, animal or human, and cannot develop any regard for either his/her own or another's well-being, how can they develop compassion?
There has been research that shows definite physiological differences in the brain structure and neurochemical makeup between "normal" human brains and the brains of serial killers. It appears that that portion of their brain that would normally "feel" what other people feel (pain, fear, pleasure) is turned off. Is it possible to turn it on? It would appear through research into attempts to modify their behavior that psychopathic brains are "hardwired" and that they are born that way - that once a psychopath, always a psychopath.
Of course, serial killers are psychopaths in the extreme. There are varying degrees of psychopathy, from the "harmless" success-driven boss we've all worked for at one time or another, who will abuse and step over employees and anyone else who gets in the way on their rise to the top, to the politicians we all know and love, who never keep their campaign promises - to child molesters parading as teachers or clergymen who see nothing wrong with compromising the trust and innocence of the young children they're in charge of protecting.
Where do these people fit in with, quote, normal humans, unquote, who do love, who do feel empathy and who do feel a responsibility to their fellow man? Frankly, having worked in the legal and justice system for over 20 years before I retired (and perhaps that's colored my world too much), I think society needs to be protected against these predators. But how do I, as a practicing Christian/Buddhist Reiki practitioner fit this aberrant behavior into my definition or "view," if you will, of the world and my commitment (and I am still learning at this point) to feel love and compassion toward all living things?
I find it very hard to have compassion for a human who operates more like a machine than a human being. I don't necessarily feel hatred or contempt toward them. I feel bewilderment, more than anything. I find a comparison between the sociopath/psychopath and the Great White Shark - just eating machines with no guilt about the damage they inflict or indeed any capacity to feel sorry for anyone who happens to get caught in their path. Just gobble 'em up and move on to the next "meal." I feel a need to protect my family and society against the harm of a psychopath, much as I would protect my family against a marauding bear. Lock 'em up and throw away the key. Of course, I wouldn't lock the marauding bear up, I'd just move it somewhere where there were no humans or I would shoot it dead rather than let it kill another human being. (Oh, I really did say that?!!)
How am I supposed to feel about a sociopath or a psychopath? How am I supposed to fit them into my rose-colored Reiki view of the world? Does Reiki "work" on them? If behavior modification, God and spirituality can't change their hearts and minds, what are we supposed to do with them? And if there is a "God" (which I believe there is, but not in the classical sense), why would S/He create defective spiritual beings with no capacity for spiritual growth? If indeed growing spiritually is why we're here in the first place. Are they here to teach us love and compassion (while they're choking the life out of us in some deserted backwoods?).
Am I making sense at all? Sorry, for the long post, but is anyone else struggling with this seeming paradox? I haven't found an satisfactory answer for it yet.