Do you offer masters initiation to people who've done 1 & 2 with another teacher?
Do you decide who you initiate to master, or do you give it to who ever asks?
If you do decide, how do you decide?
In the 10 years I've been teaching, I've initiated over 400 people (one-to-one/hand-to-hand) I've only said 'no' to 1 person who asked for reiki 1, because they had drug/alcohol addiction and severe psychiatric issues. I've not refused any one reiki 2.
In the last 4 years several people have asked me to initiate them to master level. I've refused all but 2.
Reasons for refusal incl: 1 was an alcoholic in denial, already a reiki master wanting it re-done becasue it hadn't worked (I did do healing with her and went over level 1 & 2 teachings).
Several have blatantly been 'in it for the money'.
Several have done 1 & 2 with other teachers, who have used different symbols/teachings to those I use.
Several claim to be reiki masters needing it 'topped up'. Upon questioning, they've done reiki 0 to master in a weekend (1 at a village hall with 400 people in the 'audience' and 1 reiki master on the stage!) or over the internet. I've offered them reiki 1.
Of the 2 master initiations I've done: One did reiki 1 to master with me. He has healed himself of cronic illness and 'lives' reiki. He's decided not to teach, but spends much time helping other people. The other did her reiki 1 & 2 with another teacher (same symbols/teachings). She does not 'live' reiki - is frequently angry/fearful. She wants to share the gift of reiki - is not 'in it for the money' - but her practice isn't getting off the ground. (Because she is inconsistant in her efforts and isn't ready in herself?)
These experiences make me reluctant to say 'yes' to initiating masters. I've met and heard of reiki masters who are clearly 'only in it for the money', others who are clearly in need of healing themselves, others who are self-obsessed and egocentric and others who are 'afraid of the competition'. (Better just say here - I've encountered some quality reiki folk in this forum )
I do want to share the gift of reiki. I really believe what my master taught me...that 'the world needs as many healed healers as possible'. I don't want to add to...how do I say it?...the negativity/confusion in the reiki community. I feel I can achieve this by having some discernment, but I don't want to be arrogant/judgemental. And having said that - am I just not ready to do master level initiations? Does the master journey progress like that for some - you can initiate levels 1 & 2 but need more development to be ready to initiate masters?
This dilemma is becoming more pertinent because several of my current reiki 1 & 2 students really do have the potential to be amazing teachers. (Perhaps I should explain...I teach reiki 1 over a period of 1 to 3 months, depending on students needs/progress.Reiki 2 is taught over 1 to 2 months. I continue to support students, face-to-face/email/phone. I believe, when you have initiated someone to reiki, you have a responsability to support them on their journey, should they wish it. So some of my students have been with me for several years now.)
You thoughts on this matter would be much appreciated...
Do you decide who you initiate to master, or do you give it to who ever asks?
If you do decide, how do you decide?
In the 10 years I've been teaching, I've initiated over 400 people (one-to-one/hand-to-hand) I've only said 'no' to 1 person who asked for reiki 1, because they had drug/alcohol addiction and severe psychiatric issues. I've not refused any one reiki 2.
In the last 4 years several people have asked me to initiate them to master level. I've refused all but 2.
Reasons for refusal incl: 1 was an alcoholic in denial, already a reiki master wanting it re-done becasue it hadn't worked (I did do healing with her and went over level 1 & 2 teachings).
Several have blatantly been 'in it for the money'.
Several have done 1 & 2 with other teachers, who have used different symbols/teachings to those I use.
Several claim to be reiki masters needing it 'topped up'. Upon questioning, they've done reiki 0 to master in a weekend (1 at a village hall with 400 people in the 'audience' and 1 reiki master on the stage!) or over the internet. I've offered them reiki 1.
Of the 2 master initiations I've done: One did reiki 1 to master with me. He has healed himself of cronic illness and 'lives' reiki. He's decided not to teach, but spends much time helping other people. The other did her reiki 1 & 2 with another teacher (same symbols/teachings). She does not 'live' reiki - is frequently angry/fearful. She wants to share the gift of reiki - is not 'in it for the money' - but her practice isn't getting off the ground. (Because she is inconsistant in her efforts and isn't ready in herself?)
These experiences make me reluctant to say 'yes' to initiating masters. I've met and heard of reiki masters who are clearly 'only in it for the money', others who are clearly in need of healing themselves, others who are self-obsessed and egocentric and others who are 'afraid of the competition'. (Better just say here - I've encountered some quality reiki folk in this forum )
I do want to share the gift of reiki. I really believe what my master taught me...that 'the world needs as many healed healers as possible'. I don't want to add to...how do I say it?...the negativity/confusion in the reiki community. I feel I can achieve this by having some discernment, but I don't want to be arrogant/judgemental. And having said that - am I just not ready to do master level initiations? Does the master journey progress like that for some - you can initiate levels 1 & 2 but need more development to be ready to initiate masters?
This dilemma is becoming more pertinent because several of my current reiki 1 & 2 students really do have the potential to be amazing teachers. (Perhaps I should explain...I teach reiki 1 over a period of 1 to 3 months, depending on students needs/progress.Reiki 2 is taught over 1 to 2 months. I continue to support students, face-to-face/email/phone. I believe, when you have initiated someone to reiki, you have a responsability to support them on their journey, should they wish it. So some of my students have been with me for several years now.)
You thoughts on this matter would be much appreciated...