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    A request for an ailing couple

    Post by AhuraMazda on Sat Dec 28, 2013 11:32 am

    Hello all, I've been going through a rough period in my relationship with my girlfriend.  We've both said and done stupid things in our 10 year history however we're struggling through our greatest challenges right now.  Spiritually and intellectually we are quite sound, our wants and beliefs in life are very congruent.  Our challenges arise from our diametrically opposed styles of communication, I'm very direct and she is not at all, which has led to a boiling point we find ourselves at now.  

    We aren't speaking at this time and knowing her I know she wants space.  It's all for the best that we collect ourselves in peace.  We've been through difficult times before and I know we'll pull through to find greater beauty and love within one another again but at this time I know we're both drained.  I ask all of love and light to surround us in love, to help us heal our emotional wounds, to allow us to put anger and resentment aside so that we can focus on gratitude.  When we go out to dinner, I look around and I can tell we make others happy with our loving dynamic, it's that love that I want to spread with every footstep we take side by side in life.  I love her, I want to nurture her mind, body and spirit.  I thank you all.

    Namaste

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    Re: A request for an ailing couple

    Post by chi_solas on Sun Dec 29, 2013 2:08 pm

    AhuraMazda. giving each other space
    and allowing time to work out your
    issues. Sometimes a third neutral
    party can help guide you both to a
    place where your suppose be. sunny 

    Love with Reiki Blessings to you both.

    ~ Bridget flower 


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    Re: A request for an ailing couple

    Post by AhuraMazda on Sun Dec 29, 2013 5:11 pm

    Thank you Bridget, sending positive energy to you as well.

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    Re: A request for an ailing couple

    Post by Anata on Wed Jan 01, 2014 10:18 pm

    Hello,
    I've been listening to lectures of Dr. Torsunov on Vedas for a long time. He tells a lot about family relations, this is one of his favorite and most important subjects. I find lots of confirmations of his words in my life. I am sorry I can not give you any useful links as they are in Russian. I’ll try to write you from this position.

    The first and the most difficult thing is to accept that you deserve anything happening to you, that the world is just. We are much more then our bodies. If understanding of this appears in your heart then resignation comes to you. We are here, in this world not to enjoy our lives we are here to pass exams. If your beloved brings you enormous pain it means you deserve it. I am sorry if soundes rude. It means that you caused such pain to somebody in the past. It could had happened not in your present life not in your relations with this person but in your past lives. Accept it even if it sounds impossible and wish happiness to your girlfriend. If you really love her wish her happiness even if she decides to be with somebody else. I know, it sounds impossible… But if the God wants you to be together you will be together.

    The force of our thoughts is much stronger then we usually think. I see confirmations of this often. Our environment shouts us: “Be strong, be active! Struggle for your happiness! Do something!” But real work is invisible. It must be done in you mind first.

    If you are afraid of loosing something you loose it definitely. This is the law.

    The heart (or heart chakra) is the weakest place of a man. The forehead chakra is the weakest place of a woman. If a woman says something unpleasant to her husband she pushes his weakest place as the energy of any woman comes from her heart. The man can not stand it.
    If a man says something unpleasant to his wife he pushes her weakest place as his energy comes from his forehead chakra. The woman can not stand it. This is the explanation, rather brief explanation, of why all family scandals are so heavy to bear.

    It you know it then it is a bit easier to pass difficult periods in your relations. Men and women DO communicate in a different way.
    I am sorry I used words “wife”, “husband”, “family” … You’ve been having these relations for ten years, you are not teenagers, so… It means that you are a bit more then just “a boyfriend” and “a girlfriend”, isn’t it?

    There is another important point. When we meet somebody, fall in love, start enjoying relations we want to receive pleasure from it. But in fact we meet each other to work out our karma. If you understand it your relations become much deeper your love gains another taste.

    Love,
    Anna

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